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positive-memes:A post from FB. Parenting on point
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egberts: hey anyone remember (◡‿◡✿)(ʘ‿ʘ✿) “what you say ‘bout me”(ʘ‿ʘ)ノ✿ “hold my flower”✿＼(｡-_-｡)...
hey anyone remember
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(ʘ‿ʘ✿) “what you say ‘bout me”
(ʘ‿ʘ)ノ✿ “hold my flower”
✿＼(｡-_-｡) “Kick his ass, baby. I got yo flower.”
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madamehearthwitch: stillpissed-at-alexanderhamilton: meeresfem: hobbitsaarebas: gothiccharmschool...
stillpissed-at-alexanderhamilton:
You don’t have to be grateful that it isn’t worse.
read that.
read it again, and again, and again.
somebody, somewhere, always has it worse than you. there is one person on this planet that has it the worst of all, and that person is NOT the only person allowed to be unhappy with their lot.
if things are bad for you, they are bad for you. period.This goes for trauma as well. A lot of times survivors get trapped in a cycle of minimizing/diminishing their trauma because “other people have it worse” - but there is no hierarchy of trauma. There is no ranking system for which traumas are “better” or “worse.” Your trauma is valid. Period.
IMPORTANT TRUTHS.
As a therapist, lemme just say: almost every trauma survivor I’ve ever had has at some point said “But I didn’t have it as bad as some people” and then talked about how other types of trauma are worse. Even my most-traumatized, most-abused, most psychologically-injured clients say this.
The ones who were cheated on, abandoned, and neglected say this. The ones who were in dangerous accidents/disasters say this. The ones who were horrifyingly sexually abused say this. The ones who were brutally beaten say this. The ones who were psychologically tortured for decades say this. What does that tell you? That one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care.
Don’t buy into it, because it’s nonsense. It doesn’t matter if someone else had it “worse.” Every person who experiences a trauma deserves to get the attention and care they need to heal from it.
“one of the typicalside-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care.”
SO true.
“You can’t be sad, someone out there has it worse”
By that logic, Karen, you can’t be happy because other people have it better
It’s not the fucking pain Olympics.
If you hurt, that pain is valid.
Fuck anyone who says otherwise.
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hacuubii: sketch nekolita adoptables ♥ gothic ♥ sweet
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brbgensokyo: chungchi-h: 😒😒😒😒part 2
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angelaeri: “A few years ago, I was crying and whining at my mom...
“A few years ago, I was crying and whining at my mom and sister while I was really drunk. I asked my mom and sister… it wasn’t long after we’d moved. I asked them if they were happy. I got drunk and woke up my entire sleeping family, like some ahjussi. It had been my number one goal in life, you know, to make my mom and sister happy. They both woke up and told me they were happy. But I was so envious at the fact that they were able to reply that they were, indeed, happy. Because it wasn’t like that for me. I told them while sobbing: I want to be happy too. Then I felt like I’d done my mom and sister wrong. But from then on, I started contemplating about happiness. For about six months, I pondered specifically over what I would need to do to become happy. I think that time of transformation has come. I think I need to be happy, now. I must become happy. I am going to be happy.”
Rest in Peace. You will be missed, our dear Jonghyun. Life may have been cruel now, but I hope you find another life where you’ll achieve your happiness. Sing on in heaven, and watch over the boys and shawols you left behind. We aren’t angry, we aren’t going to curse you, you won’t be remembered for how you died but for how you lived. You touched millions of hearts and graced a gift upon this world that can never be replaced. You’ll live on in our hearts and within the happiest memories we shared these last ten years. Go In peace, this is our final goodbye.Let’s meet again.
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bunnysby: littlekawaiiusagi: gaydaddyaf: asmrmermaid: sizuku🐦...
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titaniumbadger:In the days to come, if an SM artist or group does or does not maintain an expected...
In the days to come, if an SM artist or group does or does not maintain an expected schedule, please just support them. Don’t accuse them of being heartless if they keep a schedule. Don’t harass them about their return if they cancel. Just support them and love them and help them heal and process however they choose.
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krindragon: smallshrimphell: hey why does Dwayne the Rock Johnson keep asking his daughter what...
hey why does Dwayne the Rock Johnson keep asking his daughter what kind of pancakes she wants over instagram??
Like ???
Dude just loves his daughter and pancakes
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straightboyfriend:the best thing abt cats is when ur letting them sniff ur hand to see if theyll let...
the best thing abt cats is when ur letting them sniff ur hand to see if theyll let you pet them & they smush their face into ur hand in approval… makes me feel honored
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tamisrandom: xiz0r: luxtempestas: when u dont wanna finish a drawing Truth Hahah yep done...
when u dont wanna finish a drawing
Truth
Hahah yep done this..
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ginsengandhoney: little bayo pixel. it’s bayonetta’s 606th...
little bayo pixel. it’s bayonetta’s 606th birthday today! happy birthday bayonetta!! 🎉 🎉 🎉
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softwaring:https://www.instagram.com/p/BXFoIuIDwr7/
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tariqah:ICONIC
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averyconfusingcouple: obscuruslupa: my heart exploded *Quietly...
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ask-wisp-the-diamond-dog: bizarrolord: sidequestt: if you live here in the states, spread this...
if you live here in the states, spread this like wildfire. look up what the number is for your state’s attorney general.
LINKS TO CONTACT YOUR ATTORNEY GENERAL FOR THE STATES IN BLACK:
A-I
Alabama- Alaska- Arizona- Arkansas- Colorado- Connecticut- Florida- Georgia-Idaho- Indiana
K-O
Kansas- Louisiana- Michigan- Minnesota- Missouri- Montana- Nebraska- Nevada- New Hampshire- New Jersey- New Mexico- North Dakota- Ohio- Oklahoma
R-Z
Rhode Island- South Carolina- South Dakota- Tennessee- Texas- Utah- West Virginia- Wisconsin- Wyoming
signal boost!
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moonlight-is-my-middle-name: lala-oopsy: allthecanadianpolitics: pixel-sylveon: hey american...
hey american followers
canadians reblogged fcc & net neutrality stuff for you so you had access to information - can you lend a hand and help us now?
Context (please share this post!):
Please share this. I’m scared to death that because the internet’s so focused on the US, that saving net neutrality in Canada won’t get as much attention or support
WHAT I DIDN’T EVEN KNOW FUCK
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